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Here you'll find information about grandparents, and the bond that you (and your child/ren) could share with them.


If you've ever turned to your parents or your partner's parents for help and support with child-rearing, you know how wonderful grandparents can be. Although physical distance and parenting differences can come between grandparents, their children, and their grandchildren, encouraging a close relationship can benefit everyone involved.

The Benefits of Bonding With Grandparents

Establishing a bond with grandparents can benefit kids in many ways. Grandparents can be great role models and influences, and they can provide a sense of cultural heritage and family history. Grandparents provide their grandkids with love, have their best interests at heart, and can make them feel safe. 

Grandparents also encourage a child's healthy development. Overnight trips to Grandma's house, for example, may be less traumatic than sleepovers with peers, and can help kids develop independence. Another benefit — grandparents may have lots of time to spend playing and reading to kids. Such dedicated attention only improves a child's developmental and learning skills.

Tips for Staying in Touch

In today's world, though, families may be scattered across the country, and jam-packed school and work schedules may interfere with regular time with grandparents. Despite physical distance or busy schedules, you can encourage your child to develop a closer bond with his or her grandparents by trying these tips:

  • Visit often. If your child's grandparents live nearby, make an effort to carve time out of your busy schedule for regular visits. Encourage grandparents to drop by your home, too. Plan regular trips to see out-of-town grandmas and grandpas. Even if visits are infrequent, anticipating and planning the next trip can help your child regard that time as special.
  • Stay in touch with technology. Use the telephone and email to talk, write, and send pictures and sound files of your growing child to grandparents. If they don't own a computer, send videos of your child in action, like taking a bath or playing with a pet. Or have a grandparent record a reading of a favorite story and play it for your child before at bedtime.
  • Say cheese. Post snapshots of grandparents in a prominent spot in your home, and point them out to your child often. Or place family pictures in a special photo album and page through it frequently while naming the family members.
  • Sound mail call. Does your child love receiving mail? Send grandparents a box of stationery and postcards and some stamps and ask them to send your child regular letters. Another way to encourage communication is to have your child write letters every week on the same day — both kids and grandparents will anticipate the regular communication.
  • Pass it on. Many grandparents have hobbies or special skills — such as knitting, woodworking, or cooking — that they'd love to pass on to their grandchildren. Provide kids with the time and tools needed to learn these skills from their grandparents.
  • Chart a family tree. Both younger and older kids enjoy learning about their ancestors and relatives. Encourage grandparents to share stories of their families. You can even provide paper and drawing supplies so they can chart the family tree!

Source: http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/positive/family/grandparents.html